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01-10-2022 05:03 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
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01-10-2022 05:14 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Maybe don't tell them before you visit @Shaz51
No point opening up that can of worms without knowing what it is like first
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01-10-2022 05:24 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
If it is short term stay and she is already on the lists for closer places, it might be only option. @Shaz51 One step at a time to see if anything else opens up.
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01-10-2022 05:29 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Yes @StuF , that what my shaz says too
Very true @Appleblossom , yes respite care is only for 63 days at a time then you have to find somewhere else but yes one step at a time
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01-10-2022 08:06 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Oh @Shaz51 lovely
i understand my sis. It’s the most difficult thing to see - your parents decline in their health. And of course a facility closer to you would be the best situation.
i know when we had to our my mil in care we had trouble and the one she went to was an hour away.
im sorry you’re going through so much. I really feel for you all. And it must be hard for hubby too.
Sending you loving hugs xxxooo
💐🙏♥️
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01-10-2022 08:10 PM
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Thank you @Zoe7 , @Determined ❤
Thank you @BlueBay , I knew you would understand xxx
And I need to do what is right for us all
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01-10-2022 08:15 PM
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🙏♥️ You do what you need to do for your mum to be cared for and comfortable. Don’t worry about other family members. She’s your mum. And you are a fantastic daughter. Xxxxx