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i honestly see Pooks in that face! Screenshot_20241101_152935_Gallery.jpg@Dreamy @Chasingsunsets hello  @AlwaysMyself @bunniekins @Jynx @heartathome @PeppiPatty  

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@Blackcloud  is RSD in leymans terms when rejection impacts feelings and self valuation more than you want it too?

 

to enter into a room and 20 people think im half decent and 1 person doesn't i will hone in on that person and not be able relax or enjoy the night wanting to give them good  reason to reject me

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@Dreamy  hey Dreamy hope you day is going well sweetheart.  love you. bun bunxxx

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@REDLINEZ750 wrote:

@Blackcloud  is RSD in leymans terms when rejection impacts feelings and self valuation more than you want it too?

 

to enter into a room and 20 people think im half decent and 1 person doesn't i will hone in on that person and not be able relax or enjoy the night wanting to give them good  reason to reject me


Hiya @REDLINEZ750 @Blackcloud you have activated my special interest!! Hahaha
Buuuut rather than ramble at you a bunch I will just send this amazing write up - Three Pillars: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria

Summary from the link - 

"RSD is an extreme (dysphoria means “difficult to bear”) emotional reaction to the perception of rejection, failure, or criticism – regardless of the circumstantial reality."

 

I think the key part is the 'perception' part, cos RSD can kick off hard even when we aren't actually experiencing rejection, but it just feels like we are. 

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Hello my sweet @Bunniekins, it hasn't been a bad day but I'm exhausted. Hope you've had a good day. Love you beautiful ❤️

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@Jynx yesss exactly that!!

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@Glisten darling I would take those boulders from your shoulders if I had my way.

 

My shoulders and back have been really painful the past couple of days and I ended up buying a massage pad for my office chair and a shoulder massager. The chair mat is to replace the one I had, forgot to take the batteries out and they went all yicky and ecky. Oops. It works well as a light massage for the back and shoulders.\

The shoulder massager looks scary and painful, I think I'll wait until my shoulders aren't hurting before I try it out.

 

How was your Saturday? I had a technology ban so that I could focus on other things. I did my bible study, listened to music and TV whilst doing my diamond painting and looked wistfully out the window as it rained, wishing I was out there pottering around the pots.

 

Tonight I plan to cook the intricate Chiko Roll in the air fryer. I will need plenty of concentration for that job. 

 

What have you been up to? Did I tell you the lovely @avant-garde named a teddy after me? I felt so honoured and blessed. The teddy is gorgeous. I love teddies.

Hopefully I'll get to the nursery or Funnings after I get paid so I can get some more plants. I have a couple to add to the collection. Instead of a Zen Garden, I shall have the Sane Garden. 

 

Mr MM sends his....well his version of like (meow, mrow mrow, purr purr) 

And I send my loves 😍

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@Jynx oooh thanks for sharing that link darling Jynxy. That is definitely a thread I want to read more about. Look at you, all this and much brains too. You're the full package 😘

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Love these @Mustang67 thanks so much for sharing ❤️

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@Jynx @REDLINEZ750 @Blackcloud after having read what the three of you shared about RSD. I have come to the conclusion that that I must have the opposite.

There are a LOT of people you think are ok, and then they creepy-weird you out.

 

Me:👋🏼 No thanks I don’t need any.💨

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