Thanks @Dreamy
Hugs to you @Meowmy and hope things get better soon.
I've noticed an inside reaction I've had twice now to ones about "being a burden". 🤔 because I may not currently be a burden to people (because I try to carry it myself or through paid services). But I do believe it would be burdensome on my family member if I were to live in a way that was to enable me to cope better. It would be a financial burden, and a physical burden. And I think that is reality - if i wasnt working and thus could not pay fully for my expenses. And if I still was not able to do cleaning and cooking for myself then either I have to pay someone (further financial burden on them) or get my family member to do it (physical burden on them).
Whether they are *willing* to accept that burden instead of the alternative outcomes is a different issue.
What is my thinking missing here?
Am I taking the sentiment more literally than it is intended?
